Who is the biggest bully in your life?
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I've had tons of bullies in my life so really I can't choose one. So I'll talk about some notable cases.
1. Robbie, he did it because he knew no one would take it seriously. My school district was small so middle and high school students shared the bus. I moved to this district in-between 8th and 9th grade, so I didn't really know anyone. As a freshman I would ride the bus home. Robbie was a 6th grader who decided to start picking on me. At first it was just name-calling which I ignored. As that wasn't getting him attention he moved up to making violent threats, even going so far as saying he would kill me. I was in a total no-win situation. I tried to report his behavior but the driver really didn't care and since he was in the middle school my administration wouldn't even look into it. Plus they were like "You can't defend yourself against a 6th grader, pathetic."
Well, let's say I did fight back, then I'm the ass picking on a little kid. As I was three years older I was a lot taller and stronger than him so yeah if it came down to a psychical fight I'd win but discipline would be harsh on me and non-existent on him. There was also a possibility he had some sort of weapon to use if he decided to carry out his threats. It was especially scary as he lived only two houses down from me. My parents started driving me to and from school after this point. Robbie moved away a few months later but I still avoided the bus.
2. Alex. Boy, do I hate this guy. When I moved to the district this guy was actually kind of nice to me and called me his friend. Then a few weeks later he starts "teasing" me and I got upset. He apologized and I forgave him, only for him to repeat said behavior the next day. After forgiving him a few times I gave up as he was never going to learn not to "tease" me. From then on, we were mortal enemies. I couldn't even walk past him without him insulting me. Meanwhile the administration did nothing even saying I was asking for it by walking past him. What really gets me is you would think he'd try to be a little civil towards me as he was on the football team and my dad was the coach. He did have some talks with Alex but it never really changed his behavior.
Some of his friends claimed he had a crush on me. Apparently he went with the grade school approach. But I have my doubts on whether or not that was true. At least karma got to him. After graduating he got into a lot of trouble with the law. Last I heard he was arrested for dealing drugs.
3. Mike. The worst bully I've had post-high school. I've mentioned him in past journals, he was a co-worker of mine at Target. For 4 years we worked together barely saying anything to each other. I have a disability that makes me sensitive to loud noises. One day he and another guy are going "WHOA!!!!" really loud and I ask them to be quiet due to my disability. While the other guy had no issue and just shut his mouth, Mike saying "That's not my problem." He later calls me a bitch and said I was "infringing on his America freedoms." I reported him and left early that day because I was so upset. While my supervisors were on my side the first time, Mike was continually was loud around me and would behave the same way every time I asked him to quiet down. He would do this right in front of my supervisors and they started blaming me. They also accused me of making my disability up. The situation went on for several months until I couldn't take it anymore and quit.